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Always Be For Something

Submitted by Stacy on Friday, 5 March 20102 Comments
March 3, 2010
Putting Power In Perspective
Always Be For Something
Always be FOR something, not AGAINST. Being FOR something takes less energy as it is already in a lighter form.
As human beings, we cannot help but be subject to our preferences. However, we do have control over the manner in which these manifest themselves in our lives. Every value we hold dear is an expression of either support or opposition, and it is our perspective that determines whether we are for something or against it. As an example of a situation we are all familiar with at this time: We can direct our energy and intentions into activities that promote peace rather than using our resources to speak out in opposition of war. On the surface, these appear to be two interchangeable methods of expressing one virtue, yet being for something is a vastly more potent means of inspiring change because it carries with it the power of constructive intent.
When you support a cause, whether your support is active or passive, you contribute to the optimism that fuels all affirmative change. Optimistic thoughts energize people, giving them hope and inspiring them to work diligently on behalf of what they believe in. Being for something creates a positive shift in the universe, which means that neither you nor those who share your vision will have any trouble believing that transformation on a grand scale is indeed possible. To be against something is typically easy, as you need only speak out in opposition to it. Standing up for something is often more challenging, because you may be introducing an idea to people that may scare them on a soul level.
Throughout your life, you have likely been told that the actions of one person will seldom have a measurable impact on the world. Yet your willingness to stand up for what you believe in instead of decrying what you oppose can turn the tides of fate. The thoughts you project when you choose to adopt a positive perspective will provide you with a means to actively promote your values and, eventually, foster lasting change.

be for somethingMarch 5, 2010 DailyOM

Putting Power In Perspective

Always Be For Something

Always be FOR something, not AGAINST. Being FOR something takes less energy as it is already in a lighter form.

As human beings, we cannot help but be subject to our preferences. However, we do have control over the manner in which these manifest themselves in our lives. Every value we hold dear is an expression of either support or opposition, and it is our perspective that determines whether we are for something or against it. As an example of a situation we are all familiar with at this time: We can direct our energy and intentions into activities that promote peace rather than using our resources to speak out in opposition of war. On the surface, these appear to be two interchangeable methods of expressing one virtue, yet being for something is a vastly more potent means of inspiring change because it carries with it the power of constructive intent.

When you support a cause, whether your support is active or passive, you contribute to the optimism that fuels all affirmative change. Optimistic thoughts energize people, giving them hope and inspiring them to work diligently on behalf of what they believe in. Being for something creates a positive shift in the universe, which means that neither you nor those who share your vision will have any trouble believing that transformation on a grand scale is indeed possible. To be against something is typically easy, as you need only speak out in opposition to it. Standing up for something is often more challenging, because you may be introducing an idea to people that may scare them on a soul level.

Throughout your life, you have likely been told that the actions of one person will seldom have a measurable impact on the world. Yet your willingness to stand up for what you believe in instead of decrying what you oppose can turn the tides of fate. The thoughts you project when you choose to adopt a positive perspective will provide you with a means to actively promote your values and, eventually, foster lasting change.

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2 Comments »

  • Erik Hom said:

    Good thoughts.

    It’s funny I was just saying that people ask me why I don’t participate in charity fundraisers or Avon walks, etc. Well the truth of the matter is while I am openly a proponent of raising awareness of the need for more research and better awareness, I still am frugal with how I donate my money.

    I think everyone is different. I personally choose to fight a daily fight, not just a 3-day walk fight, to raise my own money for donations in my wife’s name to the hospital and foundation that treats my wife.

    Not saying my way is the right way, but I do believe a positive perspective and a proactive perspective is the best way to beat this in the long run. While running is great for my own health when I run and commit personally to contribute $0.50 for each half mile, I know that this run means more than just burning fat. It means that I am committed to a solution that I am faced with every day for the rest of my life.

  • alisa said:

    Eric… I think that is a great philosophy… thinking about giving everyday. While I run a non-profit and often count on those that are “one hit” donors, it would be great to have others thinking and doing on behalf of a cause more than one time a year…and I might add, especially grassroots efforts. Often times the same dollars go to the same BIG orgs because no one takes the time to do a bit of looking around to help those in the grass where the impact of their donation, large or small, usually means so much more.

    I hope that your wife will get the best treatment and have a speedy recovery and commend you on your charitable efforts ;-)

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